{"id":418,"date":"2019-07-04T02:04:03","date_gmt":"2019-07-04T02:04:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/solosurvior.com\/?p=418"},"modified":"2019-07-04T02:04:03","modified_gmt":"2019-07-04T02:04:03","slug":"sixty-and-counting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/solosurvior.com\/?p=418","title":{"rendered":"Sixty and counting&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"480\" height=\"230\" src=\"https:\/\/solosurvior.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/HB14.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-419\" srcset=\"https:\/\/solosurvior.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/HB14.jpg 480w, https:\/\/solosurvior.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/HB14-300x144.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 100vw, 480px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Happy birthday to me. Today I turn 60 and I think it is a miracle. I escaped death so many times over the years and I thought I would have been worm food and pushing up the daisies long before now. I never wanted to get old, but now that I am officially a senior, I can say I do not feel old. For  me, life truly is beginning at 60. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have a lot of life left to live &#8211; and I mean, really live as opposed to merely existing as I have done for most of my life. As I look back over the decades, I can see how different I have become. I realise the truth of Richard Rohr\u2019s statement &#8211; &#8220;<em>the skills that take you through the first half of your life are entirely unhelpful for the second half<\/em>.\u201d\u00a0 I have learnt new skills and the change is obvious. I am probably more than halfway through my life, but I am newly equipped now to live the rest of it well. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whereas all my energy used to go into surviving each day, I now have the capacity to be spontaneous and adventurous. I no longer need to shop online or psych myself up to leave the house. I laugh and smile a lot more; have way less anxiety and people are telling me it shows. I am able to eat better, sleep better, worry less\u00a0and am not consumed by thoughts of death. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am embracing community and love my tribe &#8211; I am grateful for my tribe and how many of them have cheered me on, admonished me, taught and encouraged me. I would not have come this far without them all. Some of them may never know the impact they have had, but I do and I am grateful. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am looking forward to the next decade &#8211; yep, I said it. Looking forward. I will endeavour to get the most out of every day. I plan to laugh more; love more; experience, forgive, learn and grow more without the anxiety of the past or worry about the future. Taking each day as it comes knowing I already have the grace I need to live it well. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thank you for journeying with me thus far.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Happy birthday to me. Today I turn 60 and I think it is a miracle. I escaped death so many times over the years and I thought I would have been worm food and pushing up the daisies long before&#8230;<br \/><a class=\"read-more-button\" href=\"https:\/\/solosurvior.com\/?p=418\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-418","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/solosurvior.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/418","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/solosurvior.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/solosurvior.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/solosurvior.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/solosurvior.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=418"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/solosurvior.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/418\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":420,"href":"https:\/\/solosurvior.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/418\/revisions\/420"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/solosurvior.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=418"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/solosurvior.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=418"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/solosurvior.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=418"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}